My crush is coming over to my apartment later. It will be just me and him. I don’t know if he is coming over as a friend or whether he likes me too, we met through friends and got talking. Has anybody got any tips? What to say, do, etc to see if he likes me and to keep him entertained? Any help appreciated.
1. wear something provocative but not obvious. skin tight clothing is good and something that shows some cleavage. by doing this it will get him looking at you in a sexual way. by doing that you make it easier for him in his mind to think about dating you, also if he is into you he could think he was getting lucky. now if he doesn’t like you provocative clothing will do nothing for him but it isn’t something obvious, girls wear sexy clothes for numerous reasons. also do not over do the purfume, he wont like the smell of flowers and over doing it on the purfume makes you smell like a stripper. stick to simple fruit smelling bodywash and hair conditioner. match the fruits (strawberry and strawberry) dont pick flowers, you might like that be he wont, "the way to a mans heart is through his stomach." skip the purfume and just take a shower before he comes over, the body wash should be enough
2. what to do, safe bet is a movie, watch something scary. if you put on a chick flick he is going to lose interest in the movie and might get bored. comedy’s though enjoyable are not really something you can get romantic with. you put in a romance movie aka the notebook your being to obvious and he might get the wrong impression or be scared away because he feels you are forcing yourself on him. rent or watch a scary movie, something that will make you jump. i would recommend, Alien, high tension, silence of the lambs or the 28days/weeks movies. there are some really good bump in the night scary movies.
3. prepare the room- watch the movie in the dark. the dark will add to the mood of the movie. put extra couch pillows on the couch. what this will do is make you two have to sit closer to each other. have popcorn and pop available, make sure the popcorn is only in one bowel so you have to share. make sure he puts the popcorn on his lap, whenever you enter his "bubble" you will create a sexual tension. thats good. if you want to go all out make nachos (taco meat, Cheese, oridinal chips) guys love food and a girl that cooks it for them is hot. nachos are easy and delisous.
4. make your move, durring the movie get close to him. you want to be so close that your thighs are touching, during a scary part cuddle up an grab his arm. if he seems ok with this dont let go, if he feels like he is going to freak out let go. most likely he should be fin with it. your next step is to move to holding hands. though holding had is something that you do in elementry school it is still a vital part of human emotions. holding hands is personal. slowly move your hand to his while still cuddleing in fear with him. if you are too scared to grab it yourself use your hand to just rub against it, in time he will do the natural thing of grabing it. by the end of the scary movie you should be holding hands and you leaning on him while watching the movie. when it ends you need to make eye contact with him. still holding his hand and staying really close move your head to even with his and look at his eyes and say "so what did you think about the movie?" he will say something, whatever it is it wont matter. " after he takes a pause tell him that you were a little freaked out with it and you are glad you did not watch it alone. with the room being dark and the credits rolling on the tv it is going to make your eyes look really big and hot, by jsut continuing to look at him in the eyes you should be albe to create alot of sexual tension between the two of you, enough to go in for a kiss. if he starts it you are good to go, if you start it start it out as just a peck, if he kisses back then go all out. once you start kissing more passionatlly once you come up for air move onto his lap stattling him and you know what to do from there. if you go infor the kiss and he backs away say sorry and and get up, he isnt interested or isnt ballsy enough to be able (or even aloud) to get a girl like you. if you kiss and he then backs away let it be, he probably doesn’t like you. no guy is going to turn down a willing girl that he likes, if you are up frount an make the moves he will go for it.
Or, there is always the be blunt idea, you are alone you can be as blunt as you want to, i had a girl that once invited me to her dorm to watch a movie and when i arived she was in a towel, apologized that she did not have time to change, dropped the towel in front of me and just put on a long white tee shirt. needless to say we didnt get past the DVD menu. very blunt an effective, if you pull that you wouldnt even need a movie. i have yet to have a girl open the door naked but i bet that would be effective. I also had a girlfriend that once invited me over to her new place gave me a tour when we got in the bed room she pushed me on the bed an jumped me, yeah she was a girlfriend but i bet that would work on any guy.
all in all guys love blunt chicks, speciallly naked ones. you tell him what you want straight up front and you will be on your back in no time.
Go hiding behind your closet until he disappear from your sight
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Cook him something!!!
and watch a romantic movie with him. Perhaps Titanic, no one ever get tired of that movie 
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take all your clothes off
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just relax
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just ask if he wants anything to drink or a snack or wants to watch tv
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answer the door covered in whip cream if he comes in he likes you if he doesnt and runs away chase him because he really likes you
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watch a scary film with him, tell him your scared, snuggle up in a blanket & then let him make his moves!
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The fact that he is coming over means something. Just be yourself! Give him time to make the first move and if he doesn’t then you should make the first move. You have to remember men can be just as shy and nervous as we are sometime.
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Maybe a movie or some thing in the backround for those moments when things get quite. maybe you could make him dinner or some thing. Don’t worry about it. make sure ur place is nice and clean.
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you should look at stuff on youtube or something and get close to him, side by side. rub your boobies on his shoulders casually, but frequently. you will know for sure, and he will get the hint. lucky bastard is going to be entertained in more than one way.
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Well, don’t think about what he takes it as. Just go with the flow, it’s probably simple and fun to just do a movie night.
Get a couple snacks ready and just borrow a bunch of movies and stuff!
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cook, watch a movie….he will take it from there
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Titanic?!?!?
I got sick of Titanic 10 minutes into it… what a load of crap that movie was! sounds like your destined to fail…
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Well, when he comes over, just treat it as if he is coming as a friend. You don’t want to be embarrassed if you think he is coming as more than that. You really just have to be yourself.. What do you have planned to do for the day? Because that will kind of determine what you should do. If he is coming just to hang out, try to do something that you believe both of you will like. I’m assuming if a guy is going to your apartment to hang out that you know a tad bit about him.. Just make a quick lunch together and watch a movie or something… Don’t make it awkward or romantic; just chill
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make some dinner and just chill at ur place. if he likes u it’ll be his chance to make a move and for u guys to be alone together if he doesnt just rent a movie or 2 and just have fun
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watch some movies, sit kinda close and pretend like it is so you can share the popcorn. if he’s into you he just may make a move
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Chill. Ask him what he thinks about things he may like. Like if he is into cars, ask him what his favorite car is.
Chances are he is at least somewhat into you if he is coming to hangout with you by yourself.
Be nice, but don’t be overly aggressive in the flirting unless he is really shy. If he escalates like touches you (friendly), escalate by touching him back. Be playful and fun. Try not to do or say anything that he would take as rejection.
If all else fails, just put in a movie. lol
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You could sit down and watch a movie, make dinner or lunch. Maybe spaghetti or order out somewhere. To tell him you like him through body language, you can look at him and smile, touch his shoulder or hand. If you are going to watch a movie see how that goes, he may cuddle with you.
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hi
first you should check that what kind guy he is . don’t feel that he is your crush but you first try to understand that many girls express there feeling and many guys used them and kick like a football . if he is really nice guy . he never try physical relation with you before marriage. i hope this is Ur first crush and first crush will nice guy. be Indian first and try it.
nice guy always love you forever and never cheat you.
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make him feel welcome,do what you have in common together,what ever he wants to do,but most of all be yourself. Good luck
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Make sure that the only seat available is on the couch. Don’t have the tv on. Ask him questions about things he’s interested in. Good luck!
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Cook something quick and easy, but that tastes really good. Also, ask him a lot of questions, its a proven fact that everyone likes to talk about themself. When he’s not paying attention, look at his feet. If they are pointing to you, He’s most likely intrested, and if he ignores things like his cell phone, your on the right track.
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Watch a movie 2getha or invite hm ova so u cook s’thn 2getha.
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Just be yourself around this guy; acting sporadic will throw anybody off. So just talk; you should cook something special.
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1. wear something provocative but not obvious. skin tight clothing is good and something that shows some cleavage. by doing this it will get him looking at you in a sexual way. by doing that you make it easier for him in his mind to think about dating you, also if he is into you he could think he was getting lucky. now if he doesn’t like you provocative clothing will do nothing for him but it isn’t something obvious, girls wear sexy clothes for numerous reasons. also do not over do the purfume, he wont like the smell of flowers and over doing it on the purfume makes you smell like a stripper. stick to simple fruit smelling bodywash and hair conditioner. match the fruits (strawberry and strawberry) dont pick flowers, you might like that be he wont, "the way to a mans heart is through his stomach." skip the purfume and just take a shower before he comes over, the body wash should be enough
2. what to do, safe bet is a movie, watch something scary. if you put on a chick flick he is going to lose interest in the movie and might get bored. comedy’s though enjoyable are not really something you can get romantic with. you put in a romance movie aka the notebook your being to obvious and he might get the wrong impression or be scared away because he feels you are forcing yourself on him. rent or watch a scary movie, something that will make you jump. i would recommend, Alien, high tension, silence of the lambs or the 28days/weeks movies. there are some really good bump in the night scary movies.
3. prepare the room- watch the movie in the dark. the dark will add to the mood of the movie. put extra couch pillows on the couch. what this will do is make you two have to sit closer to each other. have popcorn and pop available, make sure the popcorn is only in one bowel so you have to share. make sure he puts the popcorn on his lap, whenever you enter his "bubble" you will create a sexual tension. thats good. if you want to go all out make nachos (taco meat, Cheese, oridinal chips) guys love food and a girl that cooks it for them is hot. nachos are easy and delisous.
4. make your move, durring the movie get close to him. you want to be so close that your thighs are touching, during a scary part cuddle up an grab his arm. if he seems ok with this dont let go, if he feels like he is going to freak out let go. most likely he should be fin with it. your next step is to move to holding hands. though holding had is something that you do in elementry school it is still a vital part of human emotions. holding hands is personal. slowly move your hand to his while still cuddleing in fear with him. if you are too scared to grab it yourself use your hand to just rub against it, in time he will do the natural thing of grabing it. by the end of the scary movie you should be holding hands and you leaning on him while watching the movie. when it ends you need to make eye contact with him. still holding his hand and staying really close move your head to even with his and look at his eyes and say "so what did you think about the movie?" he will say something, whatever it is it wont matter. " after he takes a pause tell him that you were a little freaked out with it and you are glad you did not watch it alone. with the room being dark and the credits rolling on the tv it is going to make your eyes look really big and hot, by jsut continuing to look at him in the eyes you should be albe to create alot of sexual tension between the two of you, enough to go in for a kiss. if he starts it you are good to go, if you start it start it out as just a peck, if he kisses back then go all out. once you start kissing more passionatlly once you come up for air move onto his lap stattling him and you know what to do from there. if you go infor the kiss and he backs away say sorry and and get up, he isnt interested or isnt ballsy enough to be able (or even aloud) to get a girl like you. if you kiss and he then backs away let it be, he probably doesn’t like you. no guy is going to turn down a willing girl that he likes, if you are up frount an make the moves he will go for it.
Or, there is always the be blunt idea, you are alone you can be as blunt as you want to, i had a girl that once invited me to her dorm to watch a movie and when i arived she was in a towel, apologized that she did not have time to change, dropped the towel in front of me and just put on a long white tee shirt. needless to say we didnt get past the DVD menu. very blunt an effective, if you pull that you wouldnt even need a movie. i have yet to have a girl open the door naked but i bet that would be effective. I also had a girlfriend that once invited me over to her new place gave me a tour when we got in the bed room she pushed me on the bed an jumped me, yeah she was a girlfriend but i bet that would work on any guy.
all in all guys love blunt chicks, speciallly naked ones. you tell him what you want straight up front and you will be on your back in no time.
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